September 27, 2010

honestly

... when someone says, "Eh, awak dah kuruslah!"

What do you answer?

I've tried, "Okay, thank you. Jangan risau, I makan banyak."

But when people keep on saying it to me, does it mean I have to/ am expected to tell them they look thin/slimmer too? The Malay culture being what it is, I'm not surprised if that's what I'm expected to say.

I really don't know how to respond anymore.

And if the person did not gain/lose a substantial amount of weight, I really can't tell if they're thinner or fatter.

In fact, I've made that mistake many times. I've told a person many times that they look slimmer when they actually gained ALOT of weight for the time period we did not meet. Don't know how I could've made such a grave mistake!

Ish, honestly. I have really run out of ideas on what I SHOULD answer when someone tells me I have grown thinner.

Because guess what? Actually, I've always been like this and I know that I have NOT grown any thinner.

Maybe you want me to tell you you're thin, kot?



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3 comments:

Raieza Hanim R said...

Haha if it's me I'd say "thanks but takdelahh sama je as before" just for the politeness :)

Fiza Pushie said...

i get that quite a lot these days too, although i weigh the same haha. agree with ieja, cakap "thanks, takde la same je" sudah. hehe

Haneesa said...

ieja: kita dah tau secret awak sekarang. if money was not the problmem, i would probably have bought untuk simpanan masa depan :)

pushie: i have tried saying many things tapi lama-lama macam annoyed pulak. hahah boleh tak annoyed sebab kurus. bongong betul