tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8791341536486593603.post6810277372636998233..comments2023-10-24T03:45:49.097+08:00Comments on still chocolate dipped!: At 100.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8791341536486593603.post-21478251158794847142012-07-20T09:00:08.749+08:002012-07-20T09:00:08.749+08:00tasha: you know, when i was bawling my eyes out to...tasha: you know, when i was bawling my eyes out to my mom about not being exclusive and all, she told me that it is completely normal for all first time mothers to be so traumatised about not being able to feed their baby their own milk. but she also pointed out that i was formula fed during the day when i was a baby too but i was still breastfed for 2 1/2 years before i weaned off on my own. in fact, all of us were formula fed during the day and breastfed at night because she had to work and of course, back then didn't know about EBM and all. she always told me to look at where all 3 of us are now. we aren't cows just because we were fed cows milk. we turned out fine not just because of milk alone. it also has alot to do with the love, nurturing and upbringing by the parents. so, yes, i am alot calmer now. and i am still working on my breastmilk. hopefully, with some peace of mind, i can begin to make more milk for my baby :) thanks for your support, dear. means alot :)Haneesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09565388536728696107noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8791341536486593603.post-72526115075791569022012-07-19T09:23:32.746+08:002012-07-19T09:23:32.746+08:00Now that you've relaxed, who knows insyaAllah ...Now that you've relaxed, who knows insyaAllah the milk will start producing more :) <br /><br />Just remember kak, supplementing your baby does not make you less of a mum nor will it turn your baby into something else. We were all formula fed babies and look where we are now kan?<br /><br />You have tried your mighty best and that should be applauded and matters most. Because in the end, it's all Allah's doing. And believe in His rezeki. Kalau susu in abundance pun ujian jugak, anytime He can tarik balik.<br /><br />Enjoy the now, and don't worry too much okay kak? :)<br /><br />Andmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15189896696327081261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8791341536486593603.post-37572667809653038822012-07-19T09:04:42.077+08:002012-07-19T09:04:42.077+08:00Melissa: yes, this shall pass insyaAllah. I am so ...Melissa: yes, this shall pass insyaAllah. I am so glad I have stopped stressing out about the milk. now, i enjoy my baby a whole lot more! what a wonderful feeling it is :)<br /><br />ieja: oh yes, i understand about being zombified. if i didnt pantang at my mom's house, i think i would have broken down with baby demanding milk all the time and all that. and don't worry, you're not a bad mom. sometimes, kakak pun tinggi suara dengan luqman bila dah hilang sabar, esp kalau dia tak nak tido wpun dia dah cranky sangat. i guess we all go through it and we all are lucky to get support from each other :). now, let's enjoy the ups and downs of our motherhood okay :) much much love! :)Haneesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09565388536728696107noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8791341536486593603.post-38038734541384242982012-07-18T14:32:58.873+08:002012-07-18T14:32:58.873+08:00Kakak love,
You're a great mother. And Luqman...Kakak love,<br /><br />You're a great mother. And Luqman is lucky to have you. Well-said too. And yes it's just milk and Allah has plans for everyone. <br />So now, let us cherish the journey of this child growing up for we will only get it once. <br /><br />I once was so stressing out that Nia was in the phase to waking up every 2hours every night and I was zombified! You know, I even punished her & left her in detention cot and she cried sampai tersedu2. Of course I then called Hood and cried buckets and what a bad mother I was. Hood told me the same thing you wrote here, why dont chanelling it in different aspects, she needs me, she just wanted to be needed and loved. And I regretted that one week of stressing. I should've just cherished it. :)<br /><br />Stay strong k?=) love!Raieza Hanim Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00189498339350676293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8791341536486593603.post-44586665303705835572012-07-18T14:03:13.290+08:002012-07-18T14:03:13.290+08:00HUGGGGGS !
"I have forgotten that breastfeed...HUGGGGGS !<br /><br />"I have forgotten that breastfeeding should be a journey rather than a race to achieve a certain record and I have become borderline obsessed with making more milk that I forgot how important it is for me to not leave him hungry if I wanted him to grow well and learn well."<br /><br />Well said, dear. There's a huge difference between being pro- breastfeeding and a breastfeeding fanatic. :)<br /><br />This too shall pass. :)Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04143805727914689431noreply@blogger.com